Some may remember my partner slept with an escort about 3 weeks ago. He said he would change and things would be different from now if I could forgive him but they just aren't. Today is his birthday and he went out this morning while I was taking our daughter to school, he didn't even say he was going or where he was going. He came back, had a bath and got into bed! I've been asking him all week what he would like to do and he just said 'we'll see'. He's now shouting at me because I haven't arranged anything for him. I don't get it? I've offered to discuss it all week, tried to come up with ideas and he just hasn't shown much interest. I only wanted to give him a nice birthday. I feel like we just can't start again, not because of what he's done but because his apologetic attitude only lasted about 7 days. Since then he's been back to himself, making 'mistress' jokes with his friends, sending memes about cheating to them too, I'm so sick of it. He's 26 today & we have 3 kids together. How did I get with and stay with someone so selfish and childish. Not sure what I'm hoping to gain from this post but I needed to vent. I can now see that he will never change and I can see him cheating again so this is it isn't it.