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Please can someone advise? Replationship help!

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Oxfordmum1234 · 18/01/2019 13:06

Hi all,

My partner of 13 years was working away for 3 months and whilst he was away I had a message to say that he has been dating guys and is bisexual!! The person who told me showed me his account with lots of naked photos of him and verifications that he had met guys. I asked him about this and he has denied it, but I have thought something was going on for some time. He has also been spending lots of money on a credit card playing online gaming which I only found out about when he was away! We have two children who are 8 and 4. I don’t know what to do for the best and wanted to know if anyone that’s been in this situation? He has just taken a job to go away again for a year!

I felt very low whilst all this was going on and I’ve been chatting to a guy online and met and we get on very well, I just don’t know what to do!any advice would be greatly appreciated. X

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Aprilshowersarecomingsoon · 18/01/2019 13:10

How can he deny it when you have photos? Presumably you recognised his credentials??
Have an sti check up and pack his stuff - one way mission for him if it was me.
Hang fire with a replacement for now. Get rid of him properly first or he will turn it around and you will be the exposed cheater!! See a solicitor.

Oxfordmum1234 · 18/01/2019 13:14

Yes, his face is in quite a few of the photos too!!

I am booked in next week for the check so hopefully will be ok.

He is making out like he has done nothing wrong 🙄 x

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