I'm feeling quite tearful today its just a combination of things. I'm looking at how to deal with this simple problem. My boyfriend is coming over tonight that much I know. Its always me that asks what time and whether he is eating with me or will be over later. So nothing was said about this last night as we chatted on messenger. Of course I could just tell him that out of courtesy he should let me know when to expect him. It has not been a good week and I want to come across as assertive and not moaning. He's always saying how tolerant I am (there's a big back story to this which is for another post) so how to feel empowered and in control ladies.