DH just called me a c*nt, a b*tch and a wh*re

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My DH's behaviour has been steadily getting worse.

This evening, he was drunk and walked into our baby's highchair and then kicked it against the wall. I put it back and removed his jumper from it and he went crazy, and called me the above words.

He has also recently broken a door in anger and he regularly calls me names. He picks on me all of the time, and tries to control what I eat/drink/wear. Even how often I wash.

He is a sex addict and when I say no, he'll not see a reason to be around me anymore.

He doesn't care in the slightest when I get upset - he calls me a pansy, and weak, and says that I'm victimising myself.

I'm just so worn down by it all. I hate him.

Well then I would call him an ex.

Please leave him.

He's abusive.

I'll say it again.

Your husband is abusive.

I'm sure this is not the life you want to live.

It’s pretty obvious that every day you’re waking up and choosing to stay with an abusive piece of shit.

Maybe make a different decision tomorrow morning.

Hope that didn’t sound too harsh - please LTB

You say his behaviour is getting worse - the next step will be physical violence against you, please get away because you and DC are in danger, please please please call WA and the police too before it gets any worse. Hugs.

You an d your baby deserve better, nobody deserves that!

Dearest woman.
Dearest dear.
No.
Don't accept that.

anger.mean-ness.being cruel.aiming that at you.aiming it at objects.violance then to your or your child.
be brave op.
is there a reason you aren't leaving him?can you explain that to us.is there a fear or concern or something blocking you?
keep safe op.big hugs from us all.im so sorry this is happening
please know you don't deserve this.
what would you tell the person you love most if this was happening to them.
what would a happy you be telling your hear right now.hold her tight and be strong.you can do this.

You are better than this - he adds nothing to your life other than pain and misery - his mask is off. There are many who have been where you are and who will help you here.

You need to leave now if you can't do it for yourself do it for your baby

Call women's aid now and get genuine advice on how to leave him. Let the professionals guide you as to what is the best approach to protect yourself and your baby. Be honest and tell them the real story. Good luck OP

Why would you want to be with someone who treats you like this?

What does he say when he sobers up in the morning?

Do you rent/own? Are you both named on tenancy/morgage?

Does he work/do you work?

Does he act like this in front of your child?

What would life look like if you split up?

ABUSE- www.womensaid.org.uk/information-support/what-is-domestic-abuse/

Get help NOW. If you won't do it for yourself then do it for your child who does not deserve this awful existence, growing up in an abusive home. If you do nothing then you are complicit in this.

Helpline Number is 0808 2000 247 and it is manned 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. www.womensaid.org.uk/information-support/helpline/

Read the Survivor's Handbook- www.womensaid.org.uk/the-survivors-handbook/

Good luck OP. Your life will be so much better when you don't have to live like this.

You need to leave him. This man is dangerous and aggressive and has no respect for you. Things will only get worse. You need to think of your child and go to a refuge. You and your child are suffering abuse at his hands. LEAVE HIM.

You need to leave - for you and your baby. It is only likely to get worse . Look after yourself and your baby.