I am at a crossroads with H & utterly conflicted about what to do. He’s not been very nice to me & DDs over the years - shouty temper, silent treatment, name calling & denying things that have been said or done to the extent I started secretly writing then down to refer back to. We’ve been here before & things have gone back again but he didn’t have counselling then.
After a final straw, he’s now had counselling which I haven’t been told much about other than he knows why he’s like that & can stop it happening again but can’t explain how to me.
Do I take the leap of faith that it won’t revert back this time or am I being naive. When I initially questioned him about the counselling he said I was unraveling everything that has been achieved & said he wanted a divorce. He’s now said he blurted that out in frustration & didn’t mean it but that was huge to me. So it’s left me fearful for the future. But equally I don’t want to destroy DDs lives & end up alone & lonely.
Any advice welcome.