Ive always had a difficult time with my son, he has adhd and aspergers and really put us all through the mill when he was a teen with his violence and his ways. I stuck by him and kept our family together and we seemed to come through still very close. He's 19 with a young baby who is adorable. Has a job and lovely girlfriend and flat and im very proud of him. However.
I changed my life around last year and finally kicked my now exp out after 13 long abusive years, lost loads of weight, found a new exersise hobby and found new love..who's brilliant to me and the kids (i have 3 younger dc)
I also work full time, my young dc have hobbies and im trying to spread myself round everyone and getting so stressed about not being able to see my grandchild every 2 or 3 days which ive beentold i should be doing.
My ds, my estranged vindictive brother and now my mum (who is also an odd person at times) have all been putting snidy comments on my happy fb updates with regards to my hobby. Me and new dp went away for a night recently, something ive not done for 13 years and the shit o got for it. My brother and my son publically slagged me off on fb saying how useless i was and how distant im getting..trouble is i message my son every 3 or 3 days and he doesnt read them or reply. My mums the same. Ds will only ring if he wants something like he has ring me at 2 am demanding i take him to tescos! I also found my mum and ds meet behind my back and talk about my new life..they go out for dinner..shes supposedly housebound!
I just cant be arsed any more but im so hurt. I wouldnt mind if id been a bitch with them all but i havent. Ds has also said that he doesnt like my younger kids anywhere near his baby because he hates them..has since birth..the youngest is 9.
Its got to me somewhere hasnt it..im so sad about everything