How would you feel if ex told you his GF has had a baby?

[AlwaysSunshine81]

Split up 20 months ago. He moved out and in with his parents then with another woman after 10 months. We have a 4 yr old. He is a compulsive liar. His mum passed away Oct which was really hard as I was very close to her. I went to the funeral, he wanted me there no thanks the GF. We slept together that night 🤦🏻‍♀️
He has constantly text since we broke up telling me he loves me and hates his new life. Is not in love with GF
Sunday I found out she was due anyday. Obviously I am very hurt and upset. Have been in contact with his sister quite a bit and she told me it was born Tuesday. Yet he said she hadn’t had it. He text to ask how I am tonight and then said she’s had it.
He hasn’t told our dd about her being pregnant and not prepared her. Dd is due to go to his next weekend. How would you deal with this?

Well he has been stringing you both along. Not preparing his child for a new sibling is really bad. I think I would try and leave him out of the equation as much as possible.

One mistake, you feel bad and have admitted that... Please don't let him manipulate you again as he's clearly full of shit. Restrict contact to matters concerning your DD. Let him and the new gf tell your DD about the new baby first and then you can make it even more exciting for her about being a big sister.
Don't give him the airtime anymore, an ex should remain an ex and for a reason. Time to focus on more exciting things life has got to offer.