WhatsApp

[RealEyes]

Just need some advice to calm myself down.

Been with this guy for 5 months, he hardly used WhatsApp only for group chats he was in. We are committed to each other and he texts me every day and tells me how much he likes me etc but...

Awhile ago he had a dig at me for always being online for WhatsApp. This was mainly due to my friend going through a crisis.

The past 3 days he's been online loads, from early morning till late night. I know it's bad but I sat and watched him for an hour (from my phone) go on and off line every 5 mins.

Sometimes he doesn't text me till later that evening but I've seen hes been online most of the day and when I asked him if he'd been busy he said yes had loads of work on.

Am I just being paranoid.

@QueenOfTheCroneAge I'm ok, just reading this first post and it all started from me wondering why he was suddenly spending so much time online.

My gut was screaming something wasn't right. But I thought I was being paranoid.

We really should be able to name and Shame him.

Did he have others too?
He was accusing you of Watts app suspicious usage, just like he was accusing his wife of cheating when he was. He's a peach. Hope his DW chucks him out as well.

@Ragnarhairybreetches his wife text and said she read his phone and found messages to and from others and did I know.

This is really unhealthy for you. It's only been 5 months - a great relationship shouldn't require you fretting over whether the other is online or not.

I've just found and read your other thread and now understand about the other women. I'm actually glad you now know the full extent of of his utter vileness. And his wife knows too. All because you were brave enough to tell her about you.

A sort of sick 'reward' IYSWIM

@Dimsumlosesum I think you should read my other post about him being married and having other women.

@Dimsumlosesum you need to read OPs other thread "Married man?"

Ohhhh it certainly wasn't "a great relationship" or healthy for OP!

Urgh Realeyes, you SO did the right thing telling his wife. I'm sorry you got hurt but at least the skank won't be getting away with it anymore.

Sorry, missed it. At least you're out now. But checking WhatsApp status constantly really isn't healthy when you've only been dating someone 5 months. Or any length of time for that matter. At least you found out now and not further down the line.

Sorry if this was mentioned in the other thread but have you noticed this guy gaslights and projects? One thing he does: accused his wife of cheating. Fair enough we don't know if she was or wasn't, but he was. But then he also questioned you about being online so much and yet he was online a lot talking to other women.

You dodged a weirdo, OP. The guy sounds crazy. Please take care of yourself. Love yourself and be kind to yourself. You'll get through this.