I am with a man for a year.
We haven’t spent Xmas together, but met on new year’s night. I was looking forward to it and was happy to see him. We spent 1st of January at his, and went out and about for sometime. He seemed irritated, and did show some signs... It was and good and not so good day. After seeing him that way I couldn’t bring myself being intimate with him that night and was tired as an addition.
What I felt was “like an obligation of having sex with” I haven’t and just slept through night.
We haven’t met up since, I almost sent him a text message saying “I’m stepping back” but didn’t.
He offered to meet up yesterday, I moved it to this Friday. A little while ago I texted him saying I don’t want to meet up.
These all meeting end up with sex and I am at the stage that I don’t want to see him and don’t miss him.
I don’t have feelings I had during summer.
Am I right to feel this way?
There were few things that turned me off, and one of them is him being very tight. It was always a killer for me. I have never been after someone’s pocket, and I’m self sufficient. But his little comments about prices going up killed most of my attraction towards him.
How possibly “gently” can I walk out?