I recently posted about DH and I falling out at NY (I don't drink. Feeling isolated. www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/3466641-i-don-t-drink-feeling-isolated)
but we are now in a hideous stalemate and I don't know what to do.
He seems genuinely content to continue the excruciating silence between us rather than talk/try to make amends (this is a trait I am always amazed by, but he is king of sweeping things under the carpet and pretending all is fine). I told him that we need to be civil/act normal in front of DC because DD was really picking up on toxic atmosphere. And amazingly it has continued for a good week or so in this weird false limbo, and I'm exhausted by it. I can't bear the evenings, so just go to bed as early as poss.
I know he's waiting for me to cave in and things can go back to 'normal' but I'm just so hurt and can't move on from his nasty comments at NY. I feel like we live on different planets most of the time (we got together very young) and although our lives are so intertwined (2DC/ joint business/ home/ history/ families/ etc), we are strangely more and more different as time passes. I don't feel like I can talk to friends (small rural community where everyone knows e/o). Just feel shit and alone.