Just spent a lonely Christmas mostly on my own , as I have little family Contact and few friends. I have a partner of six months . I spent time with him and his family on Christmas Eve for a couple of hours and the same again on New Year’s Eve . Very little and random meet ups eg an hour here and there with sporadic messaging .. otherwise . We recently enjoyed a night away together . It was relaxed, loving and perfect but I can’t help but think that it’s all on his terms . He organises all of our meet ups when it suits him as he is very busy and family orientated whereas , my life is much quieter and I live alone . Am I being taken For a mug?