I've recently met and started a new relationship with a guy I like a lot. However, I've noticed that (despite being in his 50s) he only really opens up after a few drinks and his default setting seems to be set at 'emotionally stunted'. Last week he told me how he 'cringed' when his now ex wife proposed and that he doesn't really deal with emotions etc, he just waits for other people to tell him how they feel. I'm too long in the tooth to expect him to change so now I'm so torn about getting more serious with someone who clearly won't meet my emotional needs. Any advice or shared experience of this would be welcome 😊.