Evening MN
So been casually dating this guy, we Met a few years ago, lost contact, had relationships in between, remet last April and since then it’s been very casual.
Over the last month or so it’s been more “serious” as in we communicate in some way everyday, we usually do something at least once a week, stayed at each other houses and we’ve slept together a couple times.
He’s been away over Christmas, comes home this weekend.... I dropped him off at the airport on the way out and offered to pick him up but his words were “no it’s ok, it’s a hassle for you, I’ll get an Uber, thanks for offering.”
Mmmmm I wouldn’t offer if it was a hassle and I would quite like to see him.
Am I crazy to think that he “should” want to see me too after being away?
I’ve always been the one in the driving seat so to speak, and if he turned round and said he wanted to be with me and give a relationship a go I would be very happy with that but I just get luke warm emotions/feelings I don’t know.
I do really like him, I’ve been cautious to rush, hence why he’s been pursuing me since April, due to a bad bad relationship breakup. But now we’re regular dating I sort of want him to up his game a bit, I have said this but he just jokes “oh yeah, because that’s really me.”
Ergh I hate this.