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Bitter That Baby Daddy Is Giving New Girlfriend The Happy Ending!?

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3timesshy · 01/01/2019 14:51

My ex is engaged to his girlfriend of only 5 months. They moved in together and have a baby on the way. I was with him on and off for years we have two kids. He has given me a ring before but we never married because he kept cheating and lieing and has even left me for ex girlfriends before. I don't know why I am so mad and bitter knowing this. I guess I just felt like he treated me like crap and now has this new chick and she gets my happy ending. I will say he also has two other children from a previous relationship also he was with her a decade and didn't marry her either but they were engaged.I am just so angry with him I have no problem or nothing against her but I just want maybe to know why he couldn't be good to me when we were together and walk me down the isle. I mean they aren't married but engaged living together and baby on the way mine as well just say their married. I will also include that in the beginning months when they made themselves official boyfriend/girlfriend I didn't know he was even with her and we were still active sexually. And there were plenty occasions after that were he'd come over and try to come on to me behind her back and I actually told her, eventually he made her think I was lieing and crazy and just wanted him back even with the proof of calls and messages he sent me. Well now she has it to where he can't communicate with me at all if not about our children because he keeps trying to sneak with me and she is insecure. I think it's wrong he's treating me this way after all we've been thru and all I have put up with trying to make our family work. What are the odds that their marriage will last and why is he marrying her so fast and giving her the life and treating her the way I wanted. Also I saw the ring it was way nicer than the one he got me looks very expensive! I am so hurt I don't know what to do I just need advice especially from people who've been here or just advice.

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ResistanceIsNecessary · 01/01/2019 18:02

Where is the happy ending exactly? By the sounds of it he's a serial cheat with 5 kids by three different women, and he's got a subscription to an engagement ring service.

Actions speak louder than words - he was shagging you whilst promising her the world. What makes you think that she'll fare any better than you or the other ex?

Raise your standards love.

twoheaped · 01/01/2019 18:05

I think you got the happy ending in dodging the bullet that would mean you married him.
I'm sure at some point you will look back and realise he is a waste of time and effort.

Bubba1234 · 01/01/2019 18:08

It’s a blessing in disguise. Iv been there you will have the last laugh in the end.

3timesshy · 01/01/2019 20:06

I don't understand why they are moving so fast.

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AnyFucker · 01/01/2019 20:07

Jeremy Kyle is thattaway >>>>>>>>>

LovingLola · 01/01/2019 20:08

Does it matter ? Forget about the waste of space

SandyY2K · 01/01/2019 21:26

I don't understand why they are moving so fast

Live your life and let him do the same.

He's not worth the headspace.

Purpleisthenewblue1 · 01/01/2019 21:30

He sounds like a complete idiot. If you all stopped ego boosting him he would have/be nothing.

SparklyMagpie · 01/01/2019 23:13

Agree 100% with @AnyFucker 😂

showmewhatyougot · 02/01/2019 06:14

Your jealous of a newly pregnant woman who's been with a man 5 months, who cheats on her regularly?

I mean this in the nicest way, seek mental help, you are worth more x

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