My ex who I live with, has, since the dawn of home computers constantly from the time he gets up until bed sits with acomputer on his lap.Before laptops he went into an office for hours on end dispite having a 13yr old son still at home.His use is excessive by anyones standards. We had rows about it but he always went back to it . I learned it was pointless to try and change him . One day found out he'd been having an affair with someone from his long and distant past who he met again online via Facebook. She normally lived in Oz but came over for visits . They met up at these times and the rest of the time the affair was conducted online -this how I found out ,too. He is still the same dispite everything -I'm thinking of moving out when my Grandmotherly duties towards my Grandson are over . Grandson lives nearby so we both do childcare . I love doing childcare and the house accomadates us to have separate lives but his habits are so annoying -I dont feel completely indepenent either.
what would you do ?