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DP wants to move away

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CherryCupcake · 27/06/2007 17:30

My partner told me earlier that he has planned to move abroad for 6 months. He said he is doing this to help his own frame of mind, he said he noticed himself feeling aggressive and violent towards me and its shook him up and made him want to get away.

Is this his way of finishing with me or is he genuinly trying to sort his head out? I feel abandoned by him as I have stuck with him through his problems and he just seems to be disregarding everything I have done whilst saying he needs to "Get away".

I have told him that I want him to stay, he's not even considering my feelings on it. Should I just leave him to it?

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Dior · 27/06/2007 17:31

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Carmenere · 27/06/2007 17:32

I think he may be trying to split up with you, sorry.

mintchips · 27/06/2007 19:53

Whilst I think he should be given some credit for realising his feelings and wanting to do something about them I don't see how going abroad for 6 months will help.

Surely if he loves you he would stay and try and sort it out another way, maybe through counselling. It does seem he is using this as a way to get out

Do you have kids together?

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