Separation advice

[Dcjca1234]

I have decided to separate from my husband.
Money will be fine as I work and will get benefits etc.
He might want 50/50 but I'm not sure incident handle that?
We have a mortgage but I want to move and start a fresh when it's died down a little but wouldn't be able to afford half the mortgage and rent. If he stayed here would I still have to pay half?
And I'm just a little scared of being alone, not lived on my own before I have 3 kids with him and haven't been single since school.
I love make attention and I think I will miss that but we aren't happy.

You will feel liberated being on your own if you are unhappy. I was scared of living alone but it was great actually the freedom to do things my way! Go to citizens advice / solicitor to find out where you stand. Good luck

I bit the bullet tonight as he could sense something was up and kept poking. Anyway he's gone and he's being bitter alright saying he won't have the kids until Sunday and needs his wages back (even though he's gone to his parents and I'll have all the bills to pay etc) I am just scared at how horrible he is being.
I feel ok by the fact he's gone not missing him but shitty about having to talk to the kids, having him be so difficult, sorting out money and selling our home....