OH and I have been together four years, moved in together a few months ago. Around that time his brother was diagnosed with depression, and he decided to go home to help out.
At the start, it was just weekends but this grew to four days a week. I currently get three weeknights with him and he'd reduce this more if I didn't fight for it.
I'd be fine with him helping out at home, except this isn't a short term thing. His brother shows no improvement and both his parents are long-term ill so even if his brother gets better they will always need his help. He recently talked about moving back with them for the next few years, and visiting me on weekend. I think he sees his family home as his true home, as he has made little effort to move his stuff into our flat/make it his in any way.
I worry this situation will carry on long-term, that I will always come second to his family and they will always need him. While I love him, that's not a relationship I want. Should I end things now, to free his time and allow me to move on with my life?