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In Laws ... Yay or Nay

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HelloItsMe · 31/12/2018 01:12

Well... My fiance has a lovely family mostly, his mum, grandmother aunt's great aunts uncles blah blah, all have a lot of time for me as I do for them also. However.... There's one person I can't STAND and that's his dad , he is the most rude, loud and ignorant man I have ever known. He thinks everyone is below him, he patronizes everyone including his wife and children and I'm at the stage where I couldn't even be bothered going over to their house anymore with my child cause he's always so rude and hateful. I have a sharp tongue and I usually would say if I'm unhappy with something, but for years I haven't, just for my fiance's sake and to have some respect since it's his father, But enough is enough. He doesn't even say hello to me when I come in the door at times if he is in a mood, but if I never said hello to him I wouldn't here the end of it even if he doesn't even respond? He doesn't even look me in the eye so now I can't even look at him either. He's not an elderly man, he's only around 50. I'm honestly ready to explode though. How can I deal with it 🙈? anyone else have any in-laws that are a pain in the arse?

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FortunesFave · 31/12/2018 01:21

Your fiance's family is dysfunctional. Your fiance needs to face up to that and accept that you're not interested in being part of it.

Ignore the man. Don't say hello or talk to him. Let him be rude. Don't let yourself be brought into the way they live their lives.

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