SO the ex is a emotionally nasty person. ALWays did me down ( don’t go for promotion, the job is too hard for you) , made me think I was mad ( no I am sure I told you)) , isolated me from friends and family.
SO I left when dd was 4, hoping to set a better example to her. But she did see him every other weekend.
She is now 19 and home from uni for Christmas. AND not for the first time she is trying it on me. THE not so new dh has noticed and it’s making him upset too. I call her out when I can , showing her the text. Conversation where she agreed something for example. She was so cross the one evening we had friends around . It’s endless, everything I say or do
I am currently not raging but Only because I worry that her dad is doing it to her. HE did when she was small . We had a constant battle with her self confidence. But he is so exciting and fun and can do no wrong.
What would you do?