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I ended it

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Mikethenight2good · 30/12/2018 15:42

Been causally seeing someone over the past year. When I say casual he will come into my life then disappear for awhile then come back. I always let him sweet talk me round. It annoys the hell out of me. We were friends before this and I could talk to him about anything. I think I kept it going as I missed the original connection and hoped it would come back.

Anyway he is dicking me around again. So I ended it. He won't pick up his phone so just text him saying "I am stopping this now, it's not working for me".

I should have stopped this at the beginning but I fell for him. I still really like him. I would say I fell for him quite hard at the beginning but that has faded.

Feeling quite strong about it. But also sad. It's seems to be such a big part of my life. But I need to not be such a mug!

OP posts:
MissConductUS · 30/12/2018 16:47

He was catting around. You did the right thing to not put up with the disappearing act.

AcrossthePond55 · 30/12/2018 18:07

You did the right thing. And there's nothing 'wrong' with feeling sad. Just remember that you are feeling sad about the loss of the dream of who you thought he was. Not the loss of who he actually is. So go ahead and grieve the dream. Not the man. Just don't grieve too long.

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