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Need some help and perspective

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Feelingworried2019 · 29/12/2018 22:10

I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now but can't shake feeling constantly anxious about it and I don't know I'm being reasonable or not.

We met through some vaguely mutual friends and I liked him a lot but from day one he has been far more keen than me, said I love you very quickly, talks about marriage and kids. I on the other hand feel nervous and not quite sure about him but I don't know if I'm being fair or not.

He has many more partners than me, slept with some of his friends and remains very good friends with them. To be fair to him I have asked a lot about his past relationships and he has told me quite frankly about them and they've made me feel more insecure. I'm not normally like this, with my last partner I trusted him implicitly and was never paranoid or anxious and yet I can't shake that here. I'm wondering whether I should just call time on it or give it another go.

OP posts:
k1233 · 29/12/2018 22:12

Trust your gut. Something is making you uneasy, listen to it.

NotTheFordType · 29/12/2018 22:38

The relationship is making you anxious.

Therefore ditch the relationship.

Sounds like he love bombed you initially and now your gut is screaming at you to gtfo.

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