A couple of months I go, I received a FB message from a guy who lives on my street. He was telling me he needs to man up and say to me face to face what he needs to, life is short, he has to do this, and how now he has messaged me, he has to do it.
I didn't reply and thought he had obviously had one too many. Haven't seen him around, thankfully. I've realised he is the same guy who left me a card and flowers on my car a few xmas' ago, with his number inside.
He's messaged me again during the night apologising for not seeing me around to speak to me after sending me the last message. Saying hopefully he will see me soon, unless I basically want to arrange a coffee/drink.
I really don't enjoy this attention. And I'm nervous about bumping into him in the street. He's a good bit older than me and obviously pretty confident. I assumed the first message was a drunken message, but now there's this second one.
Should I message something back or wait and tell him I'm not interested if/when he pops up in the street? Messaging back is probably preferable, but I don't quite know what to say and I'll still no doubt see him in future anyway.
Thanks