I feel silly writing this, but I’m in desperate need of support and advice.
Basically met a man after a long time of being single. He was like a breathe of fresh air, so lovely and attentive. Just what I needed
Things didn’t add up and I had this gut feeling he was lying about something. I knew he had a kid but said he’d been separated for 2 years. I did some stalking on his Facebook (he would never allow me follow him) I seen his wife. I knew it was her as all her profile pictures were of them both. I confronted him and he turned it all on me, said he’d seen my social media and I had lots of creeps commenting on my pictures. Called me attention seeking which really hurt as I’m actually not a confident woman at all.
He explained that he was separated from his wife, she doesn’t hardly live at home. But it’s hard. Anyway we kept going I stupidly believed him. He never had any time for me. To the point where it made me ill with worry. I deleted all my followers from social media at his request and still nothing.
The other night we came to blows and he accused me of seeing other men. (Which I would never do) I said I felt second best to his wife and he turned it all on to me. I was very drunk and felt like everything I’d been thinking came to blows. We ended it.
Now I just feel lost, I know it’s for the best. But I feel hurt and devesated.
I think I just need advice