I think my husband dosent love me anymore

[Tina35]

We been together for 14years have four girls i am 35 he is 38 we been happy till now after we had an argument on holiday he asked me for my keys i had my baby on my hand i said to him dont u hav ur and thats where it star it all but i dont understand why he bring up now all the arguments we had in past , he start talking to me after two months of that argument now i ask him to make it up but he dosnt want to forgive me we havent had sex for 4months he says he dosnt have feeling so now i am upset stress i dont know what to do he dosnt preciate me i do look after kids , cook, clean work part time capule hours i do everything for him i just want it to take advice do u thing he is punishing me or something else which i cant tell i fill bad sad cry eveything not happy at all i love him i thought he loved me but now i dont think he does. Thank u 😊

I'm sorry to hear this. Would he go for counselling with you?

No i dont even knowwhat to do anymore

Whachingfromthesidelines do u think he is punishing me or what goes on ur mind

Sorry OP I can see this has been written in a rush, I'm just trying to understand. What would he be punishing you for? An argument over keys?

Yes North is nothing else that i know only for those keys what do u thing than

By the sounds of it, he's picking fights over nothing.

It will not be your fault though. I'm not in the best place myself to give advice but don't blame yourself. Try not to bite to his attempts at arguing, stay as calm as you can and ask him as calmly as you can what the real reason for his anger is because it can't be keys xx

Try to slow down, it's hard to understand what you mean when you say he asked for the keys - what keys?

I'm sorry you're so upset. It sounds very upsetting

From what I can gather, you had an argument a couple of months ago when you were on holiday because you didn't know where your keys were and had your hands full with a baby. And, since then, he's been "punishing" you? Is that correct?

What is he actually doing? Picking fights, sulking, saying mean things etc? Whatever it is, it seems unlikely that it is all about those keys, but if you truly can't think of anything else maybe you should just ask him what's going on with him? X

Yes pepette thats what he is doing and i feel rejected and dont feel happy i try do eveything to go back to normal like we were once but he dosent sems to me to be better we still share some bed but not close as we where is it normal for men to lose his feeling like this for an argument , and dosent want to forgive me ?

Thank you to all for you kinds words i dont feel alone when i see ur replays hmmm

Yes northwalesmum thats true nothing only argument over some key of the house thats all but i feel bad because 4 minths is long time and i dont fill right this way.

Thanks springdaff house key nothing to be uowet for so long but he is doin it so thats makes me so stress