Some people never change

[mandy151]

Hi. Just want some opinions please. Split up with my ex husband in may. Reasons being he has lied to me stole money off me, Visited prostitutes, basically a very selfish person. He comes to spend time with the kids in my house as his shared accommodation isn't suitable. I was ok with this. However this evening while I was reading my little one a story I needed to get something in my room so ran down there in a hurry only to find ex in there in dark and my bag opened and my purse taken out and thrown beside it. I said wat the hell do u think ur doing. And he said he was just going using the ensuite toilet in bedroom and swore he never touched the bag and I must have taken out purse myself. I 100% know I didn't take it out as I am always so conscious wen he is in house to hide my bag under clothes and make sure it's closed. God leopards never change their spots do they!!

He's a dickhead.
This country seems to have more than its fair share of the type.
Tell him to do one and don't allow him upstairs ever again.
Why do good women end up with these feckless fuckers?
I despair sometimes.

I just cannot understand why anyone would do this! Especially stealing from the mother of ur kids! This is stealing from them also. He knows I am struggling as it is as all he pays for is half the childcare 100euro a week I pay full mortgage and bills and everything else. The way is can lie is so convincing To the point where i think, did I actually take my purse out but there is no way as I'm so conscious when he is here to mind it. He has taken a lot of more new from me in the past. Taken my bank cards so I know to watch my bag when he is here. He is such a sneaky fucker the amount of lies I have caught him out on is laughable. Wish I never had to see him again but unfortunately wen he is the father of ur kids that's impossible🙁

He's wrong. He's just wrong. You can't trust him. Keep everything with you.

As for the kids... I wouldn't want that to be an example...Keep them away from him.

Wish I never had to see him again but unfortunately wen he is the father of ur kids that's impossible

Never let him in your house again. An ex is an ex for a reason and you've given a few, lying and stealing from the mother of his child being big reasons.

He has forfeited the right to be in your house ever again. So don't invite him back. He's a grown adult and if he can't make arrangements for a suitable location to see his child that's his problem, not yours!

If your cards were in the bag, I would report them asap, cancel and get new ones!

He should never be in your home again. If his accommodation is unsuitable he can take them to the park etc. You tried to be reasonable and he shat on that.

Get everything formalised immediately. If he is still on house deeds etc he can come back anytime he wants. Child support and arrangements need to be formal and in writing. He's playing nice at the moment because you're bending over backwards to accommodate him. And he's taking advantage of that.

Formalise formalise formalise!