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Any other gay women tell me how you flirt?

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larazaded · 27/12/2018 12:19

I'm new to this and failing.
I've tried doing the whole eye contact thing but it's just not working.
Any tips?
How do I know if she's flirting back?

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rumred · 27/12/2018 12:49

I'm rubbish at eye contact so no advice on that. What I've found is that if you can talk about alsorts and seem to really like one another then it's probably mutual attraction.
Ask her out for a drink /walk and see how that goes?

SuperLoudPoppingAction · 27/12/2018 12:50

I can't flirt.
I'm super autistic.
Still have a lovely partner all the same.

We met doing the sort of women only activity type thing that lesbians tend to flock to - hiking/book/trip group types of things.

SuperLoudPoppingAction · 27/12/2018 12:51

Apparently I was fiddling with my hair in a flirty way.
That was not conscious.

larazaded · 27/12/2018 13:13

There's a woman and I think we flirt but I'm clueless.
We get on well,she takes an interest in me,quite similar personality wise but she's more tomboy and I'm girly.
When we chat we kind of smile at each other (I know that sounds ridiculous but you know when you can feel something )
I find her really attractive.
Her and my friend went out for a drink (my friends straight ) and the woman got my friend to invite me with them.

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rumred · 27/12/2018 13:18

Sounds like she's interested. Ask her out for a drink and see how that goes. Nothing lost if it's just a friendship

larazaded · 27/12/2018 14:00

Hope so.
She makes me nervous as hellBlush
Imagine if we actually went on a date ..I would be a wreck.

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rumred · 27/12/2018 14:53

I get horribly anxious before seeing someone I really like. It's natural for many of us to feel like that.
Try to enjoy each moment. It could be wonderful. Or shite 😁

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