Hi,
I don’t know if anyone can offer me advice on this. I’ve been with my partner for a year now and we were friends beforehand for a long time and I thought really cared about each other.
It’s been a massively up and down year, he’s very closed off for one reason or another which I’ve come to accept but especially at the start I found it really hard to know if he wanted to be with me.
This led to me getting very in a tizz about it all and I loved him so stayed but didn’t know what to do.
It’s a medium distance relationship and basically we’ve had a few months of disagreement about this particular point.
I commute to him in the week, usually him coming to me at weekends as it’s easier. Although it’s orovably easier for me to get to him in the week (think a later start time in the morning etc) it’s still tough and stressful but I do it because I want to see him. A couple of times I’d been having a horrible time at work and asked if I could see him again, me going to him, and he said no he needed his personal space, which obviously really hurt.
But he’s got a female friend who he happily arrange something to see in the same city as me in the week.
Anyway, we had a big argument about this a month ago but got back on the track. Then I came to see him on his request a few times last week, found him to be very unbothered and saw him texting a friend about me.
I tried to leave but he got upset and said he wanted me there.
I love him and he’s told me he loves me, I want to stay with him but I just don’t know what to do. It’s making me so sad feeling I’m with someone with massive doubts.
Thank you