DP has just had a dig about my weight

[christmasfoof]

We have a tumultuous relationship and things have been weird for a while- either really good or completely awful. We've both been drinking (separately) today. He's been vile since I got home and has just made a horrible comment about me taking up more room in the bed than him, amongst other things. He's referring to my weight gain since we got together. He's called me a gold digger! He's got fuck all! I'm laying in bed sobbing. I'm so sad.

I'd get rid of someone who said something that hurtful to me, I think being not even a little remorseful would make it worse.

Get Xmas over and done with for the sake of your child then ditch him!

OP I would tell him his knob is too small for you to gain any satisfaction, you cant feel him inside you and you have always faked it.
Then ditch. 👍

I can't see what's wrong with being a size 12. It's a perfect size, but if he's saying you're bigger than him, he must be a skinny little runt (that's runt with an "r"). Nothing more unattractive than a skinny man. I dumped one once for being skinny. Maybe you should dump this one?

Tough one

There’s nothing ‘wrong’ with him finding your weight gain unnatractive. It doesn’t make him shallow to prefer a slimmer body/size. However there’s a way of telling people, and the way he’s done it is what makes him cruel