My ex stays over every so often because his house isnt suitable for kids to stay. He also doesn't have a car big enough for all 3. Iv wanted to put a stop to this but he insists. He is so lazy and stressss me out when he stays but its usually 1 night so i csn handle it for the kids sake as they worship him. Anyway about a month ago he temporarily moved in on the grounds he would help me run the house. He doesnt work. He doesnt pay rent or other bills but he will do a bit of shopping to contribute.. (gives me money to do the shop because he "doesn't like people looking at him")
He temp moved in because a pupe burst in his house (his mums house where he lives) and flooded the house and repairs wont get done til after new year. I developed hives for the 1st time about the same rime he came back. I thought it was flowers blooming at my front door tho iv been here 4 years an never had a problem. Anyway he left a few days ago because i had enough. The hives went. He came back yesterday to do shopping because he invited his family here for christmas day because of the situ at his mums. The hives returned. He left this morning to help his mum with gardeneing and the hives have gone. He hasnt changed his deodorant in 10 years and i asked his mum of she changed the washing powder and she hasnt. It has to be him. Can stress cause hives? Im planning to move away and get a set order in place for visitation next year ao i can finally move on from him and his crazy family even tho he says ill never be able to because he will kill any man i try and have a relationship with in the furture (but seriously i want to be alone for a long time) but for the mean time im trying to enjoy Christmas for my kids and not let his family drama get to me. But these hives?! Dr cant find any reason for the reaction but i havent mentioned that they only show up when ex does because i only just put 2 and 2 together