Former crush

[Singletomingle]

Really difficult to explain but i guess 15 years ago i had a crush on a girl we got on well but she was hung up on someone else and tbh I was an immature dick. Anyway I'm newly single and I'm noticing her on social media she is stunning and coupled with how well we used to get on I'm tempted to get in touch. I dont want to freak her out would i be unreasonable to get in touch or am I just on the rebound?

Can you see if she is in a relationship?

She is single but I'm torn between what have I got to lose and the thought that I may just freak her out. I asked her out more than once back in the day so feel if I suddenly got in touch again 12 years later she would just be creeped out?

Go for it and let us know how it goes.

I've rekindled friendships with a couple of previous boyfriends via social media. I was chuffed to bits when they got in touch. Nothing romantic came from them but still nice to be back in touch.

Go for it - just tell her what you told us - and don’t come on too strong:

Hi.... I keep seeing you on .... and wanted to see how you are. And maybe even catch up for old times sake?

Good luck

Go for it!