I’m struggling this year. Sick of being treat like crap by my mum so I’ve told her I’m now done with her for good. Struggling with the feelings of guilt for other family members however this Christmas. Usually dm and df come for lunch on Xmas day arriving earlier to see the dc open their pressies etc. I feel guilt that my df will either have to come on his own or he will have to sit in the house with only her all day Xmas day. I haven’t plucked up the courage to ask him what he’s doing yet. I also haven’t bought her a present which I’m also feeling guilt about. I feel so petty but she’s toxic and my health has improved so much since I went nc. My dm has also recent (ish) fell out with all her family too so it really is just her and my df. My df is such a lovely man and she treats him like rubbish too 😢