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Just so ill

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Feckers2018 · 21/12/2018 22:55

Came in from work on thursday really ill. Crawled into bed with coat on and didnt move. Rang dh to say I had been really ill in the night......also worried about all the stuff to do. When he got in he asked how I was and I said the same as before. He then said it wasnt bilinear. And I shout d aFFS. Later on went down to ask dh for blanket. I never do this but there was loads of eye-rolling so I went back upstairs and he shouted I was a bitch. He also hasn't done any cleaning.

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Feckers2018 · 21/12/2018 23:09

Thanks

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Etino · 21/12/2018 23:13

Don’t take it personally, the lack of responses here, it’s a busy site and your post wasn’t there long unanswered.
Have you been ill since Thursday?
Flowers

NotTheFordType · 21/12/2018 23:16

He then said it wasnt bilinear

Sorry OP I'm not sure if this was a typo or if he was using a word in a context I'm not familiar with?

Does he normally pull his weight with household tasks? I mean TBF you've only been ill for 24 hours and in that situation I probably wouldn't (for example) go to work then come home and spend the evening dusting the skirting boards. But if he's leaving his dirty dishes everywhere expecting you to wash them then he's being a prick.

C0untDucku1a · 21/12/2018 23:20

Does he often call you a bitch? Do you have children?

Feckers2018 · 21/12/2018 23:21

Bilinear means black and white. Just odd.

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Feckers2018 · 21/12/2018 23:23

No it doesnt it means two lines.

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NotTheFordType · 21/12/2018 23:28

But that still makes no sense. Did he mean "things aren't equal"? Maybe?

babysharkah · 21/12/2018 23:31

I don't understand what he meant? Apart from caking you a bitch. I get that. Is he usually such a prick?

AgentJohnson · 22/12/2018 04:30

Also confused by some of the terminology in your post but you surely don’t need us to tell you he sounds unpleasant. There also appears to be a relationship dynamic that doesn’t sound particularly healthy.

Why couldn’t you have gotten a blanket yourself? It sounds like you are craving attention and being ill appears to be an opportunity to get it but your partner is simply not that guy.

WereYouHareWhenIWasFox · 22/12/2018 04:42

I don’t understand any of your post.

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