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Does he like me?

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Janey85 · 21/12/2018 17:51

There is a guy at work and he will joke around with me. If i walk past him he kind of jokingly waves his fist at me and I do it back, he stands real close to me. When he looks at me he looks really deep into my eyes. We had our work night out and me and him spent the majority of the night talking. The thing is I have a boyfriend which he knows. Everyone kept asking if we was a couple and he would just say she has a boyfriend. Making me think and if i didn't have a boyfriend. Also he stroked my hair a few times when we was out and gave me his coat, put his hand on my waist . People say he looks at me at work too. I feel terrible as I have a boyfriend but I find myself fancying him more and more.
My work friend says she sees him looking at me when I'm not looking. He genuinely looks like he lights up when he sees me too. Sounds daft but on the night out we got to a point were we was finishing each others sentences and he said he liked how we was on the same wave length. I've never felt this kind of connection before.
We have so much in common too. We got onto the topic of astrology as we both have an interest in it. He asked my star sign and I said Scorpio. He just smiled and shook his head as if in disbelief. I asked him his starsign and he said he was a Sagittarius. One guy kept saying we had chemistry and he could sense when people were meant to be together. That could have been the drink talking but alot of people were picking up on how well we got on. My head is all over the place . Love my boyfriend but we aren't getting on well lately. I have no intentions of cheating. This was just talking but I have never spoken with someone I barely know on such a deep level for so long without even feeling the need to check my phone. At times it felt like just us in the room.

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WeCanBeHeroesJustForOneDay · 21/12/2018 18:00

If you havent made a long term commitment to your boyfriend then you are a free agent..ask the guy out...you may be missing out on a trick here if you don’t. You either love your boyfriend too much & see a future with him to let a crush come between you both & so stay away from this other guy as much as possible & stop staring into his eyes or take a chance & go on a date if he accepts your proposal. All the ways you are acting towards this other guy is a come-on to him tbh..perhaps he’s just having a laugh at your expense, either way everyone seems to know what’s going on between the two of you so take some form of control otherwise you could end up the office laughing stock if this guy isn’t serious..only telling it like it is & giving some well meaning advice.

Janey85 · 21/12/2018 18:27

Thankyou for your advice I appreciate. To be honest the night out is the most we've really spoken. At work it's mostly small talk. He doesn't drink either so i know it wasn't alcohol influencing his behaviour. Most of the time at work it's just a look and smile from across the room.

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WeCanBeHeroesJustForOneDay · 21/12/2018 18:38

So what you gonna do?

WeCanBeHeroesJustForOneDay · 21/12/2018 18:39

Maybe you’re making this out to be more than it is as you very obviously have a fair sized crush on the guy..lol..

ApplesAndPearsStairs · 21/12/2018 19:03

I read a quote recently by Johnny Depp of all people. He said something along the lines of if you think you love two people then choose the second one because you wouldn't have fallen for them if you truly loved the first one. Wise words I thought!

CupsAndPentacles · 21/12/2018 19:06

I'd say to him ''what do you want from me? a relationship? or one night?

You will get all the answers you need there.

Johnny Depp would say that because he left Vanessa Paradis for Amber Heard and they ended up divorced and it was his fault so I wouldn't listen to Johnny depp!

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Janey85 · 21/12/2018 19:25

At this moment I really don't know. I feel guilty for crushing on someone else

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Janey85 · 21/12/2018 19:28

I've really never been in this position before. I could try avoid him but that's not really an option at work

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Chocolate50 · 21/12/2018 19:28

I would be thinking about whether you want to be in a relationship with your bf. It sounds like you are not sure & need to decide whether you want to be with him or not. Then it'll be clearer once youve decided on that one.

Chocolate50 · 21/12/2018 19:29

Sagittarians are notorious flirts btw!

Musti · 21/12/2018 19:35

Decide what you want to do about your boyfriend first, regardless of this other guy.

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