As the title says. We met 4 years ago, i have 2 children from previous relationship. He has 1 child from his. But the issue of my past and the fact that i have children with another man seems to be driving him crazy. My childrens dad left the country many years ago, no contact and doesnt feature in our lives so i really struggle to understand why my partner feels this way. Plus i find it extremely hypocritical when he has a past and a child from a previous relationship himself, which doesnt bother me. I feel at our age everyone has a past! Ive tried to reason this with him but somehow he seems to think my situation is different from his. Its becoming a deal breaker for me. I wont apologise for having a life before we ever met. I purposely dont discuss past relationships in detail as i think it creates insecurities. Am i being unreasonable or does anyone understand why someone would have such an issue. Im at a loss to understand.