Hi.
I have 2 children, and they're not the easiest of kids ( DS possible ASD). As a family we have had a lot of struggles with DS, and we moved away as both my husband and I were made redundant and he found work here.
Obviously the distance means family can't help, but I often phone my mum with updates on children. Yes I have a moan about to finding it hard , but I also see the humour in it all. DS is a real character.
I recently got wind thst my mother had been critising my parenting to my brothers. Bit history, my mother was terrible growing up do no saint.
I'm hurt and angry, I have triedcovervthe years to mend our relationship from past hurts, but it seems like she just couldn't card less. I am not calling her anymore, and she never calls me so that's that then.
Bit dramatic, but there have been lots of things she has done like this over the years. I just don't know how to face up to it, that she obviously doesn't care or like me.