I am a mother of 2 children one 14 and the other 2 both girls. My Financee and I have lived together for the past 2 years, but have been together for 4. For the first 18 months of the relationship things were great. He and my oldest daughter got along, they really liked each other. He always wanted a child of his own, both of us married before and had bad relationships.
When I got pregnant he seemed really happy, then after baby came he changed. Me and the baby were not a major focus in his life, one the distance and two his grandmother being ill which i understood. So i quite my job and moved everyone up north to be with him, found a new job allowed his mother to move in. And now I am treated like the indentured servant. I cook, clean, and work over 40 hours. I have to beg for him to spend time with me or the kids, when i ask depending on his mood i get told im being selfish to expect him to pay time with us. If I say anything lately I am belittled, or screamed at.
He is always on the phone, or texting when i ask who was that i was told no one were as before he would tell me. he takes his phone to the bath room an claims its work. he is hourly not salary so he doesn't need to answer work calls if he doesnt want to. He treats me like i am stupid, hes gone from being sweet to being an ass more times then not. My oldest just looks at him like wTF.
I confronted him the other day about cheating and how he acts, and i am told hes not and its my fault. I am not sure what to do, we are meant to getting married in September but i just dont know anymore. I tried talking all i get is slamming door and blame. I just dont know anymore, he use to introduce me and know he doesnt. My gut tells me hes cheating i just dont think my heart wants to believe it