My partner is generally pretty negative but suffers from anxiety and depression so I cut her some slack. She really loves me and i accept we are just very differnt. However last year we moved to an area with a lot of polish immigrants and she has made frequent derogatory comments about polish people. My family came from Poland during the 2nd world war so I although i don't seem polish but I take
my heritage seriously. She cant even pronounce my polish name ! We've been in a relationship for almost 3 years now and she thinks I haven't introduced her to my family because she is female (as am i) but actually it's because of her anti Easter European views. She is so negative about everything I've sort of swept it under the carpet but it's really starting to bother me. I have 2 children 8 & 10 and I want them to be proud of their heritage. I'm sure she'd be horrified if I told her all this as she thinks she is really liberal but she's not. i feel at real tipping point and dont kmow what to do. If we break up I'm pretty much on my own as my family live far away. I don't know I am over retracting?