Hi all,
New to posting but hoping for some help.
I have 2 girls 8 and 5 I left their dad (my ex husband) 4.5 years ago and moved on with a new parter, as a couple we raised the girls together and have done for the last 4 years.
It's been a tough year for him health wise and I've been supporting us both financially for the last year. It's been beyond hard and now my partner has decided he wants us to separate so we have a week to sort everything out and he's moving out before Christmas.
I have no idea what to tell the kids, he's raised them up as their dad all this time and now it feels like I'm failing them all over again.
No idea how I'm going to make it all work and still hold it together for them whilst working a very demanding FT job too and no no transport as I don't drive 😩 can't look into changing that because money is so tight.
Feel like a complete failure, I've supported him through the toughest of times, lived with him pretty much doing nothing at all for the last year and now it's like having everything thrown back in my face. He hasn't even left yet and he's attached to his phone already deleting us from all online presence he has and practically dribbling with excitement at being single!
Help 😥
Where do I start?!?!