I Hate my ex so much...

[AlwaysSunshine81]

Been split up 18 months. Have gone through a rollercoaster of emotions recently. Feeling like I want him back. His mum passed away 6 weeks ago so that was tough.
However I blame him for messing my life up. I feel like I am strong and I have coped quite well with 3 kids on my own. Enjoy it most of the time but it is hard work and lonely. He moved in with another woman 11 months after splitting up with me but he messaged me every single day. Last night he asked me if I wanted his cock. Ffs! He makes out his life is so crap and he is so unhappy. I told him to move in with his dad if it’s that bad and he said he can’t do that.
I’m tryinf so hard to keep messaging to a minimum. I blame him for everything

Are they his kids? If so keep texting strictly about the kids. Don't respond to any others.

If not, you dont need contact. Get a new number or block.

Forward his message into his girlfriend.

He's the road to nowhere, ignore him.

My 4 ur old is his. I also have a 16yr old and 12yr old and he was their step dad for 6 years which hurts me so much that he’s messed everything up

It hurts, you have to go through this process and feel the pain. But you will be over it one day and you will be relieved and count your lucky stars. I'm sorry I can't say anything to make you feel better straight away, but give yourself time and kindness, and you'll come out even stronger

OP
Going through this right now
Hurts like hell doesn’t it

At the moment thinking this way
I have a choice - let him ruin my life or choose to not let him destroy me and I choose the latter.

You need to take responsibility for your own life. Stop texting him. He didn't screw up your life, he doesn't have that power. If you're unhappy with where you are, change it.

Understand how you are feeling though

Knitted harsh but agreed!