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Young23 · 14/12/2018 21:03

Hi everyone. I would like some advice, please! I have come out of a 6 year relationship this year, and started talking to this guy for around 2 months, where both highly interested in each other. Then we started meeting. He seems a lovely guy, and seems to know how to treat a woman. However, this may sound so immature, but this is why I want some advice because I don't know if its me being silly! Where both on Facebook, I have under 100 friends (only people I know on there). He has 2500 and it shows every other day that he's made friends with 20-30+ friends per week. 90% of them being women. It then shows he's constantly like other women's pictures on my news feed. Which is fine on my behalf, but his he playing a game? Please let me know how you would feel and what would you do next, if you was me. Many Thanks. :-) I have confronted him about it in a joking manner (so that I didn't offend him), and he says he know these people, but their like miles away from him.

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dilly123 · 14/12/2018 21:21

I'd definitely stay well clear of this one!! Sounds like a player Shock

Young23 · 14/12/2018 21:26

Thank you for your advice. :-)

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GreenyBlueEyes · 16/12/2018 00:11

I don't suppose there's any way it could be part of his work? Maybe if he does promotions or something? Even then, only women is odd.

I have to say I wouldn't like this. Even if he's only with you in real life, his eye is constantly elsewhere. Unless there's a good reason for all the adding and liking I wouldn't get involved with a bloke doing this.

crappyday2018 · 16/12/2018 00:26

Its not immature. I think you're right to be suspicious of this. Who knows that many people?

losingfaith · 16/12/2018 00:33

Avoid.

PolkaDoting · 16/12/2018 01:21

He’s a weirdo.

Sethis · 16/12/2018 01:36

20-30 friends per week?

There's no way in hell he can "know" all of them. Not a chance. Extremely dicey.

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