Could the police remove my ex if he came to the house?

[angandbaby19]

I was with my partner for nearly 6 months
I will be 11 weeks pregnant on Monday
At the start of the relationship everything was fine
He was the most sweet guy i've ever met and we had such a good time together, but after a couple of months everything started to go down bank very quickly
He started to get very jealous when ever we met up, checking my phone constantly and whenever a message came through he would grab it straight away, we had a argument about this and he said he would stop and he did, things got alot better and i thought it would of been ok from there, but i was so wrong he lives about a hour away so we didn't see each-other every day or anything, i found out i was pregnant and from there things have gotten so so bad, he called me on video chat every single night to make sure i was at home and wanted me to walk around the house making sure nobody else was with me, this week hes turned. On Monday we spoke over the phone and he said 'if i catch you with another man i will smash your f#%^ing face in'
I told him this was so wrong! Not only to threaten me like this but im carrying his child wtf?
Hes started to drink alot and last night called me drunk and was threatening me again but this time it was worse 😢
I've told him its over, i don't want to be with him anymore, he's dangerous!
I'm thinking about my baby, and i can't have a man like that around us, and i will protect my baby at all costs for us to escape this man.
He's very very jealous (ive never cheated in this relationship) even if i go to the shop (because there is a man who is also from his country) he calls me until i leave because he said he likes me? ( which is not true! Hes fucking married for one wtf )But he seems to be only jealous of men who are from his country
Anyhow i blocked him on everything last night after receiving 14 missed calls from him, after i told him it was over.
Im just so worried that he will start drinking and come to my house or something (i live alone)
I'm scared of this man, and i'm scared that he could hurt me if he wanted to
I went to my mums last night i was so so upset
My question is, if he came to my house drunk, would the police remove him? And if he did, is there something i could do to stop him coming again?
Please no negative comments, i'm trying to get away from this situation, i just need advice and a hand hold

[FrogFairy]

I agree with every word Godowneasy has said.
Can you imagine sending your child for access visits with him?

I wish you well, keep safe.

[GreatestShowUnicorn]

I agree tell him there’s been bad news at 12 weeks scan and block all contact and move if you can.

[GreatestShowUnicorn]

Oh and tell the police about him.

[angandbaby19]

Police came today and said if he comes dial 999 straight away they will remove him
And i think i agree im going to lie and tell him theres no more baby if he gets in touch
Hes not really that bothered about the baby anyway which is good tbh
He wouldn't go through solicitors or anything because like i say hes not that bothered
And i think there is something dodgy about his status in this country as he told me before never mention his name to Anybody official
He works cash in hand hes got no credit/bank cards i don't think either...
just something seems not right
But anyway the plan is to if he calls again ill tell him there has been complications and theres no baby

[Meckity1]

I may be wrong, but be careful.

If he is in the country illegally, the baby may be his ticket to stay here under 'right to family life'. If he works that out, then he may either want to try again or, if he realises that there is still a baby, put pressure on you and try and get access. It sounds like he hasn't made that connection, and hopefully he won't.

Take care of yourself and your little one.

[TemptressofWaikiki]

I would generally never do this because down the line my family were refugees due to different conflicts. But I would actually get in touch with the immigration people and customs to inform them about him not paying taxes and in case he is here illegally, as it might solve your problems and result in him being deported. Obviously, do not mention your pregnancy and his paternity. Someone this abusive and scummy does not have my sympathy to stay. He does not contribute to this society in a positive way.

[CanSurvive]

Well done for speaking to the police. I agree with everyone else, to make sure you really want this baby at this time and want to continue with the pregnancy. If you truely want to continue with the pregnancy at this time, tell him you are no longer pregnant and do not put his name on the birth certificate and give the baby your surname.
He does sound dodgy and probably has another family elsewhere.

[ViragoKnows]

He told me before ages ago don't contact the police for anything, he's very strict about the authorities and not knowing anything about him

Shame. He shouldn't threaten people then, should he?

[angandbaby19]

@ViragoKnows exactly

[Starlight456]

Protecting your baby and your self are the most important here.

[glitterfarts]

Also be aware that if you allow him parental rights and he has contact with the baby, he could flee to his own country with it and you'd never see your child again.
I agree, I'd REALLY think hard about whether you want to give this violent man a reason to be able to stay in England, and to be in your life for 20+ years.

6 months is barely out of extended one-night-stand. You don't live together, he hasn't introduced you to his family. I don't mean to be nasty, but this man isn't your partner. He's not even a boyfriend. I'd say you are the OW!

[Sarahandduck18]

Tell him you lost the baby.

Block him.

Move.

Tell the police everything.