Hi
I would like some advice in what to do, maybe someone has gone through the same as me, I have asked my husband for divorce he didn't take it really well and first got really angry and blaming me for everything even said that I have used him all this years, and said he was gonna take me to court to get full custody of the kids. We have been together for 10 years and married for 5, got two kids, 8 and 3. He is a really good dad and not a really bad person, but after finding out he cheated on me when I was pregnant and also bringing one of his ex home when I wasn't in the house said they didn't do anything they talked because he was feeling down! When I go out he gets angry and tells me I don't love him I don't love the kids I'm spending money so I stopped going out I used go out every other month, I don't go out out I don't even drink alcohol, sometimes I like to have dinner with my friends. When his angry he gets aggressive and sometimes I even get scared, he calls me names and I just got to the point where I can't do it anymore, we have tried make it work for the past 2 years but is not point carry on because I don't love him anymore. We have a mortgage together, his not leaving the house and thats fine by me because is his house as well, I'm sleeping on the sofa, I have asked him if we can book a day where we can sort out and starting putting the house for sale and he completely ignores me, so it will be a very long process, sometimes he texts begging me not leave to think about the kids etc etc, but I'm so unhappy with him,and It would work better if we were only friends. Problem is I don't want to sleep in the sofa for the rest of my life and he told me if I get a place for me I still need to pay for the mortgage and I can't afford to pay for 2 places. I'm a bit lost in what to do ? Anyone have any advice or gone through the same?
Thanks in advance