Quick bit of info, I want to divorce my H because he is so aggressive. So I’ve been practising the grey rock technique and H is getting fed up now. I’ve told him to stop eating the food I’m buying for me and DD as I can’t afford to feed him too (he earns 5/6 x more than me) He said today he doesn’t want to live with me anymore and i need to pay him out, I can’t afford that. He said he has spoken to someone and they advised him that I have no right to stay in my (small) 3 bed house with my DD (2) and that I need to sell and give him half! He also wants both cars and all his money (about £20000), i would have nothing! I’ve emailed several layers for a free 30 mins consultation and nobody has replied and I can’t afford to pay for one. This sounds totally unreasonable to me. I have told him that he can keep his part of the house and we can put it in the deeds and he can take all his money and get somewhere else. I would be able to afford everything on my own.
Does anyone have any advice on this?