Basically kids dad wants to come over for Christmas. He has a new girlfriend and when we found out about each other he was still trying to pursue me and get me back but in a relationship with her. I found out he told her about the children from his first relationship but not the children we share together. Also he ended up begging her to take him back when you would of thought it should have been me seeing how he has only known her for 3 months and being knowing me for 10 years and we have kids together. Anyway as he was begging her she took him back and again he tried to talk to me behind her back I told her. He lied and told her that I reached out to him and not the other way around which was a lie. And also told her that I contacted him because someone I was seeing was molesting our kids. I couldn't believe he'd make up such a lie just to win her back. I haven't heard from him for over a month and then he contacts me saying we need to talk and that he wants to be here for Christmas, which every year we do spend Xmas together but I just feel this time he's only reaching out because things aren't going right with the new woman he's with prior to this he hasn't been concerned about our kids too much since dating her. I want to tell him just send the gifts to the house and not come over. Every time he comes over he's making passes at me even while dating her. Also he asked me to claim kids on his taxes. He is behind on child support so it will all go to back support but I guess his goal is to get the back support off of him. My thing is this he has denied even having our kids, talked bad about me to this woman hasn't been there for our kids really while dating her and even went as far as lieing about our kids being molested by someone that I was dating which I wasn't dating anyone and the whole story was a lie to win her back!!! I don't think he deserves any of it he won't even put our kids on his fb but has his first kids on their I am over it and don't think he deserves to even be here on Xmas am I wrong?