Denial of dp

[Ishiede]

My dp of 13 years cannot take responsibility for his behaviour. He talks to me disrespectfully all the time but when I stick up for myself I’m the cause of the problem. Last time I stuck up for myself he launched a kitchen roll my head. Tried to talk to him tonight about his behaviour and started to get aggressive again. We have three
Kids and feel he is becoming detached. Just heard his phone buzz. Don’t know what to make of it.

You need to get away from this man. He's disrespectful and showing signs of becoming violent. And yes, probably has another woman he's chatting to (at least) - why wouldn't he, when he doesn't respect you at all. Get yourself together and get him out.

I just left my partner of 11 years today we have 2 because his behaviour got worse and worse over the years and I thought I could fix it. Obviously I can't and he needs to lose eveeything before he can be grateful for what he has.