Suspicious

[justilou1]

How long should I let him sleep before I snoop on his phone?

What's the story here? Why are you suspicious?

If he's asleep, and you need to look, go for it.

Now..get straight on it!

Why?

Eh?
Is there a backstory perhaps.

Just some cagey behaviour. Seems to be credit card related. I nicked his phone. Doesn't seem to be anything to do with another woman. I'm going to get to the bottom of it somehow. It's not gambling, but we are seeing a counsellor and it will come out then. OR ELSE!

I wouldn't take a partners phone

Now if I mistrust someone that's enough to end things for me

Cagey behaviour that doesn't produce a surprise gift or party very soon would be enough of a reason to bail

But it's Xmas soon so you sure it's not gift related caginess?

If you cant figure it out just ask him out straight what he has been upto. His facial reaction should tell it all.

You don’t seriously think I haven’t asked him? This has been the culmination of months and months of him trying to make out that I’m going crazy.

As for gifts.... HA!

and months of him trying to make out that I’m going crazy

Gaslighting?

Sounds like he’s gaslighting you? What did you find in his phone?

He has been gaslighting me. I have evidence of that from texts to his friends about me. (basically laughing at me and humiliating me. They are stored for evidence if required - along with a lot of supporting bank statements, etc. and all of the kid's paper work.)