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Why does he stalk all my stories but never text?

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Lallame · 08/12/2018 20:48

Hi all, regular poster here but I have NCed as I am ashamed of starting such a silly thread.

So I matched with a guy a couple of weeks ago on Happn, we chatted a bit and he invited me out very last minute on a week night. I had to decline as I already had plans, he said "next time" and I replied "next time indeed!". It turned out we live within 300 mt from each other and work within 100 mt from each other, so we have essentially been leading "parallel lives".

Then I texted him a couple of days later and we chatted a bit. He was the one ending the conversation. I hoped he was going to reach out again and possibly ask me out again, but he has disappeared ever since. This was over 10 days ago now.

Nothing weird about this scenario, I am all too familiar with OLD flakiness. All good.

The weird bit is that this man keeps checking every single story I post on Whatsapp. Usually within 30 mins max. Every single one of them, without fail.

Surely if he was so uninterested to never to contact me again, he should not be interested in my stories??

I know I should not waste one more minute of my life wondering about why a complete stranger checks my stories instead of asking me out. Urgh! OLD is such a mind fuck!!

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dangerrabbit · 11/12/2018 20:26

Good luck!

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