My dh has a habit of belittling my close friends (not to their face - just to me) and I'm wondering if other husbands or partners have a tendency to do this. He likes a couple of my friends but he seems to have a problem with the ones I am closest to. He refers to one of them as a brainless/dumb blonde, one as neurotic and the other one as a witch - I can't help feeling that his view of my friends somehow reflects on me. He has no reason for disliking any of them, as they have always been nice enough to him. One of these women had a party for her 40th last night, so we went along but dh let me know a number of times that he didn't wish to go. While we were there, he didn't make much attempt to enjoy himself and looked as though he was having a rotten time. I have been to so many of his work functions with him and I'm always nice to his work friends & associates, but I don't know why he can't show me the same respect. Is this some kind of chauvinism or something??!! When we're with my family, he tends to do the same thing (sits there looking bored), but with his work colleagues he's a completely different person - the life of the party almost. This might sound ridiculous but I feel as though he is putting me down through his attitude to my friends & family. Does this kind of behaviour sound familiar to anyone?
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