I’ve been on and off with my partner for 2 years. It’s been pretty rocky over the last year. We broke up recently because I learned he had met someone while we were broken up. I know we were over at that point but It broke my heart so I blocked him and I applied the 30 day no contact rule. We started speaking recently after around 6 weeks and he told me he had a hard time when we were broken up and he missed me. He told me it was over with the other woman and we planned to be friends, I was cool with that because he means a lot to me. It was nice being back in contact because we were very close and I missed him but I have found it hard to open up to him about my feelings. Since we have been talking we have started spending time together and now we are seeing each other again without a title. Back when we were together he was looking at houses and I supported him through the process that took around a year. He recently bought a house and ever since the sale went through has made little effort to see me. Last month my friend died and although he’s been in contact with me everyday to check up on me he hasn’t tried to see me. The day before the funeral I asked to see him, he said he was too busy, I was really cross and told him I feel like he’s putting things before me. The day of the funeral I was a mess and asked him to come over, again he said he wanted to but he was too busy. I feel really disappointed in him because we are so close but he’s so wrapped up in this house now and I feel irrelevant. I’m not sure what to do..